At First SightSG
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Now accepting members in Singapore

Blind dating,
done properly.

No swiping. No catfishing. No endless chats that go nowhere. We match you on who you are, not how you look. You meet at the restaurant. Blind.

Free to sign up. You pay only when we find your match.

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Verified members
100%
ID-verified
20+
Curated SG venues
$0
Upfront fee
The problem

Dating apps are broken. You already know.

First impression is a photo

You're judged on lighting, angles, filters. Not on who you actually are.

Chats that go nowhere

Weeks of small talk. Ghosting. Dates that never happen. Everyone's tired.

Same faces, same city

Tiny city, tiny dating pool, same profiles on every app. You've seen them all.

How it works

Five steps. One real date.

01

Tell us who you are

Seven short steps of questions, about ten minutes. Values, lifestyle, non-negotiables, the real stuff. Not height, abs, or what star sign you are.

02

Verify you're a real person

Record a 6-second selfie video, upload a photo of your NRIC front, and confirm your legal name and date of birth. Stored privately, never shown to your match. This is how we stop catfishers before they get anywhere near you.

03

We find your match

Our matchmaker reads every answer you gave. We pair you with someone whose values, lifestyle, and non-negotiables line up with yours. Not a swipe. A decision, made for you.

04

Both accept, both pay

No photos. Just a first name, age, and a short note on who they are. Both of you accept, both pay by PayNow, or no date.

05

Pick a restaurant, show up blind

One of you proposes a spot and time from our curated list of public Singapore restaurants. The other confirms or counters. No messages between you until you actually meet, face to face, over dinner.

Why blind

Singapore is one of the few cities in the world where this works.

Safe, small, everyone's within 45 minutes of everyone else. Every member submits a selfie video and a photo of their NRIC before we offer them a match, so no one can catfish. Every venue on our list is a public restaurant. You pick the spot between you, show up, and have a real meal with a real person.

That's it. That's the product.

No photos
Personality before looks.
ID-verified
Selfie video + NRIC photo, every member.
Public venues
Curated list, you pick together.
Real chemistry
No chats, no screens between you.
Pricing

Pay nothing to sign up. Pay only when matched.

One price, per person, per match. Both pay, or no date.

Per person, per match
$59SGD

Free to sign up. Free to receive match offers. You only pay when you've seen a blind teaser and decided to meet them.

  • Full 7-step compatibility questionnaire
  • Selfie video + NRIC identity check
  • Blind match offer with compatibility score
  • Accept or pass, no pressure, no charge if you pass
  • Paid by PayNow — no card, no Stripe fees
  • Pick from our curated 20-venue Singapore list
Begin your questionnaire

All prices in SGD. Paid by PayNow when you accept a match. Food and drinks at the restaurant are billed by the venue directly and are not included.

What we believe

For people who are done with the apps.

Dating apps taught an entire generation to judge strangers from three photos and two sentences. We don't think that's dating. We think that's browsing.

A real first date happens in person. Over a table. With a face you haven't pre-scrolled, a voice you haven't pre-heard, and a whole evening that hasn't been spoiled by three weeks of message tennis.

We do the matching. You do the meeting. No swiping, no catfishing, no chasing ghosts who were never going to show up. Just two verified, genuinely compatible people, sitting down at a real restaurant in the safest city in Southeast Asia, and seeing what happens.

FAQ

Things you're probably wondering.

Will we actually see photos at any point?

Not through us. You see each other for the first time at the restaurant. If, after the date, you both want to stay in touch, you exchange contacts yourselves. That's the blind promise.

How do you match without photos?

Our team reads every answer you give us. Values, lifestyle, relationship goals, non-negotiables, communication style, the way you answer the open questions. A match only goes out when we're genuinely confident. It's why most members wait two to six weeks between offers, not two hours between swipes.

What if they don't show up?

It's rare. Both of you paid and both of you agreed to the venue, which is exactly why this works. If the rare no-show happens, we do not refund. The fee paid for the matching, the verification, and the platform, not for the outcome. The no-show loses their account and their fee. You go back in the pool and wait for the next match.

How do you stop people from catfishing?

Every member records a 6-second selfie video, uploads a photo of their NRIC, and confirms their legal name, last 4 of NRIC, and date of birth before we offer them a match. All stored in an encrypted private vault, never shown to your match. One NRIC, one account, no exceptions. If the person who shows up doesn't match who we said you'd meet, you walk out. We have the evidence to act on it.

Is this safe?

Singapore is one of the safest cities in the world, and that's the whole reason this model works here. Every member is ID-verified before any match goes out. Every restaurant on our list is public, chosen by us for being well-lit, staffed, and busy. The two of you agree on the specific spot and time inside our app before either of you goes anywhere. If something feels off, you leave. You owe them nothing.

Do I have to go on the date alone?

Yes. The magic is that you both show up, blind, and just have dinner. A public restaurant, early evening, no pressure. If something feels off the moment you arrive, you're free to leave. You're an adult.

How long before I get matched?

Depends on who else is in the pool. Most members get their first match offer within two to six weeks. We'd rather leave you waiting than send you someone who isn't a real fit.

What if I don't want to accept a match?

Then don't. You only pay when you accept. If we offer and you pass, you go back in the pool for the next one. Simple.

Who's behind this?

A small team of matchmakers in Singapore obsessed with better dating outcomes. No VCs, no swipe addiction engineering, no dark patterns. Real people, making real introductions.

Meet your match.
Not their filter.

Free to sign up. Takes about ten minutes. You can always walk away if we're not what you're looking for.